This article offers a guide to reframe the view on the word 'selfish' to help guide with setting boundaries in relationships by saying no more often. Many people have a difficult time saying no to people, especially their loved ones. Often, they express frustration and anger about 'being taken advantaged of,' but decline any solutions that would mean they do not give what is asked by their loved ones. The proposed solution is quickly meant with "but that would be selfish, and I can't do that." How is selfish defined and viewed? According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, … [Read more...]
Helpful Attitude And Action Steps To Feel More In Control During Periods Of Change
This article provides a guide to help have the right mindset, attitude, and action steps during periods of change. Have you ever lost control during periods of change? Suddenly, you may find yourself overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unresponsive. That experience is common during sudden change, but it also occurs when during periods of welcomed and expected change. Managing change is a process that has some ups and downs, or bumpy moments, along the way. Yet, it is imperative you stay on course. You must stay devoted to taking care of yourself and continuing to engage in action … [Read more...]